Some toys need your undivided attention. A suction-cup dildo is happy to stay where you've put it while your hands get up to something else. Thoughtful little thing.
That simple base opens up plenty of ways to enjoy a dildo, by yourself or with a partner. You can change your position, add clitoral stimulation or let your partner concentrate on the teasing. Here's how to make the most of having one less thing to hold.
Start with a dildo you fancy
Before you fall for the hands-free possibilities, think about the bit you'll actually be feeling. A slim, smooth dildo gives a different experience from a fuller, textured one. A curve can change where you feel pressure, while a straighter shape lets you keep things simple.
Choose a size you already enjoy if you're trying a suction base for the first time. There's plenty of novelty in a new way to use it without adding a surprisingly ambitious cock to the evening.
Our suction-cup dildos give you a place to start. If you're still deciding on shape, our dildo buying guide helps narrow down what sounds good.
Attach the suction cup to a smooth surface
Find a clean, smooth, flat, non-porous surface at a height that feels comfortable. Texture and grout make it harder to get a seal. Press the cup into place and give it a gentle tug before using it; keep your body weight supported separately.
Then think about the position you want. A lower spot can suit seated or kneeling play, while a vertical surface gives you another angle to work with. Being able to reach comfortably matters much more than choosing somewhere that looks impressive.
Start with small movements as you settle in. With the toy staying put, you're the one choosing the pace and depth. It's a lovely option if you enjoy taking your time and finding just the right angle.
If your dildo is more interested in falling off than joining in, our guide to getting the suction cup to hold can help.
Let your hands join in
This is where hands-free really earns its name. If you enjoy penetration and clitoral stimulation together, you can add a bullet vibrator without juggling two toys at once.
Or use your fingers, touch your nipples, hold onto something sturdy for balance. The best choice is whatever makes the position more enjoyable for you. Sometimes a free hand makes more difference than a whole drawer of extra toys.
Make room for your partner
A suction base gives a partner more freedom too. They can focus on kissing, touching or using a vibrator while you control your movement around the dildo.
It's also a handy way to show them the pace you like. You get to lead, they get to pay attention, and nobody has to stop mid-kiss to swap hands. A rather nice arrangement all round.
You can still pick the toy up and use it by hand whenever you fancy. The suction base gives you another option, so there's no need to stick with one position for the whole session.
Use lube and clean the dildo afterwards
Add lube for comfortable movement, keeping the suction cup and its surface clean. After play, clean the toy and leave it dry before putting it away. A small bit of care keeps it ready for its next date with you.
Once you've found a shape and a spot you like, try changing just one thing: the angle, the pace or who's holding the vibrator. You might be pleasantly surprised by how much fun that familiar dildo still has in it.