Pet Names in Relationships: Privacy and Preferences
A humorous look at pet names in relationships, including privacy, public settings and checking that both partners enjoy a nickname.
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How to Clean and Care for Kegel Balls
Cleaning Kegel Balls: Actually Simple Kegel balls, sometimes called Ben Wa balls or vaginal weights, are simple devices. They should be cleaned simply too. There's no need to...
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The Date Who Only Owned One Spoon
A date’s minimalist explanation for owning one spoon becomes harder to maintain when dessert requires two.
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Bondage Collars: Types, Fit and Agreed Meanings
A collar can be fashion, a shared symbol or a specific accessory. Clarify its meaning and construction before shopping.
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Sexting: Consent, Timing and Communication
A non-explicit guide to consensual adult sexting, including timing, communication, boundaries and respecting a partner's response.
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Private vs Secret Relationships: Discussing Openness
What distinguishes agreed privacy from feeling hidden? Talk about introductions, disclosure and the relationship you both want.
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How to Choose Lingerie: Fit, Fabric and Comfort
Lingerie Should Feel Good Not photograph well. Not look good on a model who's a size six and has the posture of a ballet dancer. Feel good on...
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The Vibrator That Would Only Tell the Truth
A talking toy begins answering questions a couple have not asked, until its honesty becomes difficult to locate.
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Men's Lingerie: Styles, Fabrics and Fit
Explore men's lingerie styles, including lace, mesh, briefs and bodysuits, with attention to fabric, sizing and personal taste.
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Sex Toys and Masculinity: Preferences Without Stereotypes
Explore sex toys and masculinity, including common stereotypes, private preferences and choosing products without pressure.
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The Hotel's 'Wild Weekend' Package Was for Birdwatchers
A couple’s suggestive weekend booking turns into a dawn expedition and an unexpectedly fierce birdwatching rivalry.
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How to Choose an E-Stim Toy: Controls and Accessories
Buying an E-Stim Toy: A Practical Guide If you're reading this, you've probably decided you want an e-stim toy. Good. Before you buy one, here's what you actually...
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Double-Ended Dildos: Designs, Size and Flexibility
Compare double-ended dildos by design, flexibility, usable dimensions and handling to decide which features suit your preferences.
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