How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator and Come Like You Mean It

When a rabbit lines up, it's fucking ridiculous. The shaft fills you, those ears flutter over your clit, your thighs start shaking and you've got one hand clamped on the headboard. When it doesn't line up, you've got a nice shaft and two rubber ears vibrating against nothing at all.

Don't give up on it just yet. Getting a rabbit to work is mostly about the fit and small adjustments, and you'll have a very good time working it out.

Get comfy and turned on first

Charge it, wash it and learn the buttons with it in your hand. Then lie back or roll on your side, somewhere your arm doesn't have to bend like a pretzel. Don't rush in cold. Touch yourself, watch something filthy, or run the ears over your clit on a low setting for a while. It'll all go in a lot more easily when you're dripping.

Add plenty of water-based lube to a silicone rabbit and ease in only as far as feels good. You don't have to take the whole shaft. The best depth is wherever both parts feel right, not the one that gets the most toy inside you.

Line up the ears

If the arm's missing the spot, tilt the handle down or roll your hips. A small change can shift the contact without pushing the shaft any deeper. Try a pillow under your hips or a different angle before you press any harder.

Flexible arms give you more room to work with, so use what your toy's got. The Satisfyer Pearl Bunny 2 has rotating pearls in the shaft that do their work even when you're holding it still. If getting the ears on your clit makes the shaft hurt, stop forcing it. Another shape from our rabbit range might suit you better, or you may be happier with a separate bullet and dildo.

Start low and give it a chance

Start with a low setting once it's in place. If the arms have separate controls, try them at different strengths, because you might want your clit getting hammered with a gentle hum inside, or the reverse. Stay on each setting long enough to feel it build.

Mashing every button in a row only teaches you that the toy has buttons. It tells you fuck all about what makes you come. If it's too strong, turn it down or shift the ears slightly off your clit, and our too-intense vibrator guide has more ideas. Pain or numbness means stop.

Hold it still, then try moving it

You don't have to thrust. Holding it deep and still while you clench around it can be even better than fucking yourself with it, and it keeps the ears exactly where you want them.

When you do start to move it, try short, shallow strokes or little rocks of your wrist, so the ears stay on your clit. Long strokes will lift them right off, but sometimes that's exactly the tease you want. Stay close, then pull away, and let your clit miss it for a few seconds.

Want your partner to take over?

Hand it to your partner, then show them exactly where it goes. Guide their hand and say "there, don't fucking move." It's the hottest instruction you can give, and it'll save them from searching around out of politeness.

Let them hold the toy while you run the settings, or keep the toy and let them kiss your neck and pin your wrists. You can both take turns being in charge, and you might not make it to the end of the sentence.

Clean it, then do it again

Wash the shaft, the ears and the gap between them, then let it dry fully. That little valley collects everything. If the fit never quite works, have a look through other rabbits. Your clit shouldn't have to meet a toy halfway.