Latex or Non-Latex Condoms? Find One You'll Actually Want to Wear

You're kissing, the clothes are coming off, and they're whispering in your ear. And the word they're whispering isn't "polyisoprene", yet the condom packet suddenly expects you to have an opinion on it.

Here's what matters: latex, polyisoprene and polyurethane feel and stretch differently, and each one gets on with different lubes. If one doesn't work for you, there are others. A condom you like wearing is far more likely to get used, so it's well worth finding your favourite.

Latex: stretchy and everywhere

Latex is natural rubber, and it comes in every size, thickness and texture going. Hating one latex condom doesn't mean you hate them all.

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If one squeezes, it may be the wrong size. If it drags, you may need more lube. Neither is fixed by announcing that condoms just aren't your thing. Use water-based or silicone lube with latex, as oil can damage it, and if either of you has a latex allergy, choose a non-latex condom.

Polyisoprene: rubbery feel, no latex proteins

This synthetic rubber is used in non-latex condoms. It doesn't contain the natural proteins that trigger latex allergy, and it's still soft and stretchy, so it's a good one to try if you like that feel but have to avoid latex. Non-latex doesn't mean oil-friendly, though, and oil can damage polyisoprene too. Your massage oil can stay involved in the massage.

Polyurethane: a different feel again

Polyurethane is a plastic with less stretch than rubber, so the fit feels different. Don't assume your usual size will carry over, and read our condom size guide to sort a material problem from a fit problem. It can work with oil-based lube, but only if the label on your condom says so. Our condom and lube guide has the combinations.

Natural membrane: not for STIs

Natural-membrane condoms, often called lambskin, may prevent pregnancy, but they aren't suitable for preventing HIV or other STIs. "Natural" on a packet doesn't mean it does every job you need. If STI protection is part of your plan, go with latex or a suitable synthetic. Condoms reduce risk, but they don't eliminate every infection risk, especially with uncovered skin.

What works for both of you

Irritation isn't always the material's fault, as lube, fragrance or other additives can be involved. Stop if something bothers you, and get advice about anything severe or persistent. It's worth a chat with your partner about what you each like, because the person taking it gets a say in how it feels too.

Use one condom at a time, not two together, and take a fresh one for each round. Yes, every round. If you're lucky enough to need several, keep plenty within reach.

Then get back to the kissing, and leave the chemistry lesson in the drawer.